A Love Like No Other

7 06 2015

rooted-in-love“I love _______.” Go ahead and fill in the blank. Truth is that the blank can be filled by just about anything in our manner of speaking. I can truthfully say, I love my wife, but I can also truthfully say that I love pizza. In the way in which we speak and use the word “love” you will, hopefully, understand that I don’t love my wife and pizza in the same way. This may seem silly to point out, but sometimes stating the obvious is a way in which we can bring focused attention to a particular way of thinking and expressing ourselves. The word “love” is used in the English language, as in many languages, to express different levels of affection that we have for a particular person or thing. We use the word “love” to express the level of either internal or external value that we place on the object of our love. So while I say that I love my wife and that I love pizza, I don’t value them the same. My wife, she’ll be happy to know, is far more valuable to me than pizza and I love her differently in scope and in measure and with the deepest affections of my heart.

Having said this, the New Testament has a lot to say about love. I’m speaking of the kind of love that is not casual or fleeting, but the kind that is unconditional, steadfast, and of the deepest sort that springs from the depths of human affection. Our ability to express this kind of unconditional love is rooted in the way that God has made us, image bearers of the Almighty. If we know the gospel we know that our affections must be redeemed because they are, in their natural state, inclined to love the lesser more than the greater. It is in this redemption through the gospel that our affections are delivered from the lesser loves of this world to the greater loves of another world. Through faith in Christ we now have the ability to set our deepest affections on God and we are inclined to do that very thing by the power of God’s Spirit, who lives within us. In fact the greatest command of Scripture is that we “love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength” (Deut. 6:5; Mark 12:30). So as the gospel has now redeemed our affections from the lesser to the greater, the love we have received from God the Father through Jesus Christ is now the standard by which all of our “loves” or “affections” or “values” are measured.

This is the point, I believe, when Paul appeals to God on behalf of the Ephesians when he says that he prays for them that they “being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God” (Eph. 3:17-19, ESV). So for the believer who has tasted the redemptive love of the Lord, that love is the sweetest love and the most satisfying love which trumps all other loves. In other words, being rooted and grounded in that redemptive love that snatched us from a life that would have been certainly wasted on so many lesser loves, we now find the measure by which we are to govern all of our affections and to set all of our priorities. Christ came to save us from wasting our lives and also from wasting our love, in fact so that we might know true love in him. Indeed Jesus said, “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13, ESV). But wait, Jesus didn’t just say it, he went on to actually lay down his life, not just for his friends, but explicitly for those who were bent on being his enemies through sin and self-righteousness.

Jesus’ demonstration is an extension of God the Father’s love for the world (“For God so loved the world…” John 3:16). That is to say that his act of love is rooted in the divine attribute of God, namely that “God is love” (1 John 4:8). So God’s attribute of love has now set the standard for all time and for all people. So let me ask you: Have you tasted and experienced the love of God for you? Has his love reached down to the place where you are wallowing in so many lesser loves and rescued you from a life wasted on frivolous passions and delivered you to a life of deep satisfaction in Christ? If the answer to those questions is “yes” then there will be a difference in us. I’ll get to those differences in my next post. But for now, if the answer is “no, I have not tasted the love of God for me personally” then I would like to invite you to Admit your sinfulness before God (“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23), recognizing that unless we turn from our sin and confess it that the “wages of sin is death” (Romans 6:23). Believe that Jesus Christ died for your sin and was raised from the dead on the third day understanding that “if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved” (Romans 10:9). If you will admit your sin and believe on the Lord Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sin then God will do the work of making you a new creation because “if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come” (2 Corinthians 5:17). And what will that new creation look like? It will begin to make us an extension of the grace and love of Christ that we have received. So go ahead and honestly fill in the blank with the name that best fits, the name upon whom you have set your deepest affections: “I most love ________.”



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